Thursday, January 17, 2008

I love you but I don't trust you....boleh ke??!!

Stumble into this from a friend's blog.....and just because I like it....maka, cetak rompak aje masuk sini.
Trust isn't necessarily all about love. You can love someone whom you wouldn't trust--and that's part of the problem. I can recall a few relationships in the past that have led absolutely nowhere, due mostly to the fact that those people couldn't be trusted to fill an ice cube tray, much less a relationship. I've always found that believing in someones capabilities (and actually seeing some concrete results) has to go hand in hand with whatever emotional longing I might have for that person. Without some kind of faith, it's pretty hard to invest any kind of emotion or even open yourself up to another human being.
Nothing to do with what I think right now (coz my mind, I presume, is/should be 'working' for research and nothing else!!!! hihihi...).
My comments on this : Trust + Love....should be balance...a little bit of both makes life happier!

2 comments:

azrid said...

love & trust should be balance..agree with u..
but sometimes trust may be blinded by loves..dok?

Zaidah said...

It's not distrust though, i call it DOUBT. when love consumes you, you have jealousy looming, a sense possessiveness and ownership of the person you love, that you simply find it hard to let that person out of sight. And doubt comes with INSECURITY, and the need to feel a sense of belongingness for the person you love. So, there.. i love you but i also feel insecure of the love you have for me, that's why I DOUBT you. can meh?